Raise the Baseline
People optimize for peak moments. But I think that's usually backwards.
You barely live in the peak. The launch, the promotion, the milestone, those are rare. Almost all of your life happens in the average day, repeated into an ordinary week.
So the goal should be not to have bigger peaks, but a higher baseline.
If you had to relive this exact ordinary week, forever, would you be happy? Not the highlight version, but the actual one: the actual moods, the actual output, the actual conversations. Would you accept it?
The real work is closing the gap between the week we live and the week we'd accept living forever. Not always just a five-year plan or the next big win.
And it does not have to be that complicated. If I slept well. I got a few focused hours on my own work before anything else. I go for a walk, I have time to read. The work I do feels like it matters and helps people. It can be small, but repeatable, nothing dramatic. But it sets the floor for everything that follows.
Raising the ceiling can be exciting and having goals is good. But raising the baseline is what actually changes a life, because nearer to the baseline than the peak is where you spend nearly all your time.